Starting Conversations with Kids

It is Sunday morning. Your running around trying to get everything together last minute for the kids programs that are beginning. Got to get glue for this craft or some supplies for a game that was found this morning. But you have missed one important thing. . . . meeting and having a conversation with the kids. Instead of worrying about getting everything together that could have been done days in advance, you could be meeting with kids, especially visitors. Establishing a relationship or connection with the kids in your ministry is more important than you think. Starting a conversation with them doesn't have to be tough either, especially if you know some key topics kids pay attention to today. Here are some topics you might want to become familiar with to help you get on their level.

1) Disney. . . .

One of the easiest things you can do to relate to kids is get hooked on Disney. This could be the latest and classic Disney movies, watching the Disney channel, play Disney video games. The list goes on but if you want to talk to kids asking them who their favorite Disney character is an easy way to get started.

2) The latest music

Who is the most popular kids music sensation right now? Not sure. Watch the Nickelodeon kids choice awards each year. Also you could start by asking what a kids favorite song is and then go back and learn about them later for next time.

3) Sports

This is a big one with boys especially. But knowing the hottest sports athletes is a big deal. These kids are watching them constantly. And if your in the south you better know how the state college football teams are doing!

4) Pets

A lot of kids have pets. Of course for many people pets have a special place in one's life, but this is even more evident in kids lives. After all they are the only ones I've ever had request for me to pray for their pet.

5) School

I know what your thinking. Did he just list school? Yep, while some kids may not enjoy school the most it is where they spend a big chunk of their week. Everyone has a favorite period (even if it is lunch). Why not ask about where they spend most of their time?

These are just some conversation starters to think about. But making an effort to converse and meet with the kids in your ministry is important. It shows them you care, are a human just like them, and can establish a foundation for a opportunity to discuss the gospel and God's love for them.